Strangers are just friends waiting to happen. -Rod McKuen
Several years ago, I lived in South Korea for almost an entire year. During that time, I wrote my book, Chasing Life: Lessons on Suffering Well. I also took several workshops on painting, wood carving, flower arranging, knitting, perfume making, candle making, and even got a few sessions of Kendo. It was an intriguing time; discovering new things, and learning more about myself and the culture.
During my time in the peninsula, I found courage to try new things, and to get acclimated to my new life "on my own." Although I had family and friends who checked on me regularly, I can tell you that it was not easy, and that for most of my time there, I felt alone.
I am known to be an extrovert, and so it is not hard for me to meet new people and make friends. Although it took some time to feel like a local, by the end, I had added several new contacts to my friend's list.
On one of my daily walks, I noticed a jewelry store. I went in to check it out and started conversing with the owner. We talk about jewelry, faith and missions; connecting immediately! I came back a couple of days later and met with her and her trainee. The three of us drank tea and talked for hours, and even shed tears sharing our stories. It was a special time.
The same happened with the owner of a nearby clothing store, who became a sweet friend. After living in South Korea for a while, I noticed I was greeted by name at the nearby coffee shops. Then, one day, it became evident that the loneliness began to fade and community was happening.
I recognized that God's providence and care followed me at a time when my life was looking different than what I had dreamed off. That season taught me that when we suffer, we don't have to suffer alone. God has a way of connecting with us through beautiful encounters along the way.
So, keep your heart open regardless of where you are, or what you are going through; you are not alone.